I got another interesting comment at the other day from someone named Ig under the post Will a Man Leave his Wife? My husband left me for another woman and quickly “married” her after he divorced me. After 10 years of not hearing from him, he contacted me and wanted me back. He regrets leaving me and we’ve been seeing each other for the last 4 years. He has 2 children with this “other” woman. It takes everything out of me to keep from telling this woman what is going on. 

She destoyed my marriage and family and yet I have to be slient to protect her feelings. Would you tell her what’s going on or let her find out on her own? My husband won’t leave her because of the children. The only way he’s going to be free of her if she finds out about me and she’ll leave him. I’m seriously thinking of telling her. So, what would you do if you are Ig? It’s a tough situation to be in with a man sandwiched beween two women. But I look at it this way. 

If I tell, what future would I have with this man? Wouldn’t he feels betrayed and angry that I have changed the rules of the game for him? But if I don’t tell, then I may just end up sharing this man for years to come. So, either way, it’s a potential lose-lose situation for me. Since it is not a fair gamble, I don’t even think I would want to continue playing this game. I would just call it quits. That is if I can be truly rational and put all my emotions aside. But as we all know love is blind and we get carried along. Therefore, if I’m really in love with this man and want to keep him, then I would just have to accept the situation and plod along. I won’t rock the boat and will try to enjoy the ride while it lasts. Why don’t I tell? Simple. 

Craigslist Omaha 

Craigslist Knoxville 

Craigslist Akron 

Craigslist Milwaukee 

Craigslist Greenville 

Craigslist Raleigh 

Craigslist Syracuse 

Craigslist Indianapolis

Because telling is this man’s responsibility, not mine. Telling could also make me carry a tinge of guilt for betraying the man I love. And lastly, telling means the man will be forced to make a choice and I would rather he decides to stick with me on his own free will than because a situation forced him to. I guess for some people telling may be a better option. I don’t know. It really depends on your character and what you can live with, I suppose. So, would you tell the other woman if you are in Ig’s shoes?

The original message indicates that the woman was involved in some kind of “services” at the club. The implication is that she was involved in prostitution either as a prostitute herself or by arranging other women to perform sexual services for clients. Either one of those would be a huge turn-off for most men.